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Are you in need of advice on a matter that only a bisexual could understand?
Tiggy Upland, the Wild Deuce, is at your service. Write to tiggyupland@gmail.com!

This advice column is for entertainment purposes only. The columnist reserves the right to edit the letters for any reason.


Ask Tiggy
Ask Tiggy


November 29th, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

Do you think it's possible for someone who's bisexual to be monogamous with one person forever?

I have been struggling with this. I'm 29 and have been with my fiancé for eight years and we have four kids.


November 15th, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I am 29 and have been married to a great guy for a little over a year now. Over the course of the past four years that we've been together, I have been open to him about my attraction to women.


November 1st, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

After a ten-year hiatus, I (a woman) have started dating a woman. This is not the problem; in fact, this is wonderful.


October 18th, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I just recently came to terms with knowing that I am bisexual. I tend to be more attracted to women but I'm still attracted to men. I just got a divorce from my wife who treated me like I wasn't a man because I'm bi and made me feel ashamed.

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September 6th, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and have unfortunately been long-distance for the majority of such time. However, we have planned for me to move in with him this coming January, something I've never done in a relationship before, so I'm already a little nervous.

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August 23rd, 2011
Dear Wild Deuces,

It occurs to Tiggy that there is a lot of bad advice out there, confusing the lot of us and putting a wrench in our interpersonal relations, bisexual or otherwise.

...more...


August 9th, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I am a 28-year-old man in a seven-year relationship with my male partner. For the last two years, we have been in an open relationship and have been very successful in our endeavors...

...more...


July 12, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I'm a 58-year-old, twice-divorced man. Ever since I hit puberty and had some homosexual encounters with a cousin and other pubescent male friends, I've desired the sexual activities but have zero-zip-zilch emotional connection with men.

...more...


June 28, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

Advice columnists always say the same thing about these scenarios: don't give a snappy comeback, just rise above their rudeness. And they're right, that is what you should do. But ask yourself...

...more...


June 14, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I'm a sixteen-year-old girl and I'm at a really confusing part in my life. As a kid, I identified as straight because I didn't know there was any other option.

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May 31, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

My friend and I are having a dispute and I'm wondering if you can help me out. He says that there's no real reason to tell my health care provider that I'm bi...

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May 18, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I'm in a long-term relationship with the sweetest, most caring man in the world for six years. Sounds great, right? We just have one problem.

...more...


May 3, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I came out as bisexual last May and I've been talking to this girl for about a year.

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May 3, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I'm glad you started writing an advice column because I've got a question that I think you are uniquely placed to answer.

...more...


April 19, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

How do you come out as bi to friends and family if you're already in a heterosexual marriage?

...more...


April 5, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I’m a bi woman in a relationship with a man whom I love and we have a great sex life.

...more...


March 22, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

What is your advice on strangers making assumptions about my orientation?

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March 8, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I'm engaged to the most incredible woman in the world (sorry, everyone else!). Everything is going fairly smoothly as we plan the wedding and our lives together but there's been one sticking point: she wants me to take her last name. Kind of insisting on it, actually.

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March 8, 2011
Dear Tiggy,

I'm a bisexual woman in college "dating" (read: hooking up with) this guy I'll call "Dan." He's in a fraternity with "Michael" who's dating (read: going on dates with) my good friend, "Mary." Mary and I met in our university queer group.

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